OK, I think I get it after rereading everything on this thread.
Take the original 2 wires that are the 300v connections from the bulb.
Connect 1 side to post #5 with the resistor in series.
Connect the other side to Post #6
Then find a 120v source in the unit, preferably the first connection leading in from the wall outlet. Add a pair of wires (White and black) to extend that power source to both the bulb and the relay.
Connect 1 wire (black)of the 120v circuit directly to the relay post #1.
Connect the other wire (white) to 1 side of the new lightbulb.
Then take the wire from the other side of the light bulb and connect it to post #4 on the relay.
I hope that sounds right, because it makes sense to me.