Hi Sp4rk,
you might use an LM2907, a touch sensitive IC to connect to a touch plate and use a flip-flop to switch on/off the device you intend to use.
Here is a circuit which I have designed without prove of proper function yet.
It should work anyway, even inverted (off instead of on).
The design was meant to be used in my house to switch on and off lights from different locations (like hallway light from different rooms).
The circuit uses two blue LEDs for orientation purposes at night being switched off if the main light source is enabled.
The PCB dimensions should fit into a US standard wall outlet box of 3.44375X2.1587inches.
Please note that a switching relay is required at pin5 (TOGGLE) connector, contained in the mains distributor cabinet.
Regards
Boncuk