Good. That means you can do it with a FET, the LM395T and/or a low side driver IC. The latter two offer protections.
I briefly found a SMT FET, which you probably don't want: **broken link removed**
It has to be N channel
Vgs max has to be greater then the electrical system. >18 V min
Vds has to be greater than the electrical system
Rds(ON) has to be small
Vgs (thresh) is where the FET starts to conduct. (Look at the graph).
One of the first things you have to do is pull down, the gate such that more than the leakage current is consumed and it guaranteed to be off.
You should always place some resistance in the gate. 100 ohms is fine. it will work without it, but get in the habit,
12 V at the gate is definately enough to turn the FET fully on. That voltage will be supplied from the pull-up resistor. You will hardly need any current, but it has to be bigger than what your pulling the gate down at. The LM311 can supply at least 10 mA, so 100 uA to 1 mA should be fine. The comparator transistor should be in saturation when the relay is OFF.
So, this gismo will turn on your relay when the comparator is OFF. The FET will be turned on by the pull-up.
The relay coil needs a reverse biased diode across the coil (50-400 PRV). This is best done near the relay, but doesn't have to be.
The LM395T is a wierd beast, but it's protected. That transistor would work too, but it's not a FET.
The TDE1737DP **broken link removed** is an example of a low side driver which would work. You might need a like a 2.5 or 5V reference as well.
If you haven't bought electronic parts
www.digikey.com should work. There is a Canadian website:
https://www.digikey.ca/