shankbond said:
thanks a lot for wat u have written , i m really inspired; may be this is the only powerful way out .
so, how should i start analysing myself ,in order to make ur things true ,i think i will have to make a bit of modifications to my thinking .so were to start with ,plz explain
I hope you understand that this is somewhat difficult for me to comment on, having never heard you speak. My analogy comparing your speech to electronics was for the most part meant to get you thinking objectively about your presentation skills, rather than getting personally depressed (and effectively shutting-down) over a negative experience. You can make improvements by being consciously aware of how you're speaking and presenting, and the criticism or comments you might receive.
Understand this: electronics is easy compared to speaking and getting along with people. There are less clear-cut, universal rules governing the practice of human communication than there are in electronics. It'll only take about ten years of dedicated study to become an electronics expert - communicating with people is a life-long endeavour.
There seems to be some consensus that the best way to communicate effectively with any given group of people is some form of immersion into the language and culture of the respective groups. For instance, if you wanted to speak colloquial gangsta, you'd probably want to go straight
into Compton. If you found the last sentence confusing, that's because it's been written in a particular style of English, for a particular audience that will understand the reference to NWA's
Straight Out of Compton. See? I'm writing in an amusing, informal fashion - partly to inform you, but also partly to amuse me, and by chance, possibly anyone else who chooses to read this.
So what kind of English (or if not English, presentation skills) do you want to learn? Something you might try if you want to immerse yourself in the world of English speakers, but can't afford to travel to England, is making Youtube videos of the things you're interested in. Narrate your videos, either live during a presentation much like the one you've just done, or in post-production when you're editing your videos. Posting videos on Youtube will elicit candid responses, some of which will come from complete idiots, some of which will come from people with your best interests at heart. Being judicious about which ones you listen to and which ones you ignore is all part of the learning process.
Whatever you do, don't give up! Keep your spirits up with the knowledge that perseverance and good judgment are invariably rewarded.