I would call the diagnosis "overthinking without actually thinking". Too many hypothetical scenarios and searching for hidden what-if flaws, instead of making decisions about the actual design.
Flyback, if you are not sure about something for the design you have two choices: either you go overkill and make sure that your concern wil not ruin your thing even if it is there (especially since you are now a hobbyist), or you take some time to prepare a test jig and measure it for yourself and then decide if it is a valid concern or not.