Just in case any one hasnt copped onto what im doing is im trying to use old cheap handsets for "intruder" alerts around the place, the audio detecter was only one idea, im sure it wouldnt take huge figuring out to change it to something more suitable, ill post a schematic if i get working!
@ ionic--- i'm using an 4 pin optocoupler for pressing the button, when it detects a voltage at one side it joins the 2 pins at the other, really handy things, i love them!