@ljcox
I don't think so. The 100n cap holds too little charge to damage the switch IMHO. A 100 Ohm resistor would undesirably slow the switching pulse rise time, perhaps enough to prevent switching. I don't like shorting caps. Yes, 100 Ohm is too high as the time constant would be 10 us, so a lower value would be better.
The 4013 is positive-edge triggered. The pulse rise time constant is not R1 x C1; it's the switch resistance (a few mΩ) x C1, so is < 1uS. Agreed, but the fall time constant is R1 x C1 & the data sheet states that both must be < 5 ms for a 15 Volt supply.
That would be ok.
Not, as in this case, if the transistor has a high beta value. I disagree, see below. But in general that's a useful rule of thumb.