Thanks again for your explanations !!!
Your Question : Why i need to struggle with a CAP .... yes i agree, there are so many limitations. so i can ask question and get clarified some theoretical matters by showing them to experts like you guys (Electronic is not my main field ...but one of my hobby) if it's a perfect diagram ...no way to ask questions.
i think if i need to go ahead with this, the best and safe solution is to use a circuit removed from a common mobile phone charger (5V . 200mA). the current and the voltage can be limited with resisters and Zener diodes. what do you think of it ?
i have another question of transformers :
A I have a 230V/12V, 3A step-down transformer.
What will happen at primary side of transformer if I attach a 12V/5A device at secondary side? Will primary side attributes (such as voltage or current) change?