First off you need to give specifications - very slow and very fast are completely meaningless, and I'm extremely dubious you actually mean 'very fast'. However, xenon strobes are somewhat limited by how fast they can charge and fire, but are perfectly able to cope with the speed of a car engine for setting up ignition timing.
I've no idea what the situation is now, a lot of strobes for sale seem to be LED rather than Xenon - but certainly in the past Xenon strobes (for disco, bands etc.) commonly had external trigger inputs as well as timed flashing.
I have two xenon strobes (made by Pulsar I think?), and these both have external trigger inputs - the next model up included DMX control as well, but mine don't.
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If you can't find ones with external trigger inputs, then you could use a DMX controller to trigger a DMX version from your pulses.
Building your own is pretty easy, if you can get hold of the parts, and particularly a suitable reflector and xenon tube socket. You also need a suitable high voltage capacitor (able to with stand continual charging and discharging), plus a trigger transformer.
This is a typical circuit:
It would need manual triggering adding though.
Here's a (pretty poor scan) of a Pulsar strobe (probably similar to mine), which includes external triggering: