Personally I'd keep is as simple as possible, possibly incorporating a switch contact in the connector, that brings in a relay inhibiting the crank signal to the starter solenoid, anderson connectors are used for this kind of thing, you can get them in a range of currents, up to ones big enough for large fork lift batteries, you can also get accessories such as a microswitch that operates when connected to the mating plug/socket.
Nice simple circuit that is less likely to leave you stranded in a supermarket car park.