I daily solder SMDs at work and tried all methods available. Solder paste is what produces the best results for me. No sucking, no wicks, no bridging, no mess. It would be easier if the syringe the paste came in actually had a needle on it, but it doesn't which is why the sharp instrument is needed. Sharp plastic tweezers are used to position the component.
I use the same station as shown on the sparkfun link picasm posted, set at about 680 to 700F. Anything cooler seems to take too long and damage to the IC is possible.
The solder bead method isn't a bad idea but I don't like applying solder that has been sitting and boiling on the tip. When solder is overheated you end up with peaks and bridges, and overheated solder is what you'll get if you let it sit and boil on the tip.
In the end, it's whatever works best for you.