If you have a genuine 1960s? vibrator relay, it likely has a common pin for all contacts, a pin for the coil and the other two will be the output contacts to drive the ends of the primary of a centre-tapped transformer.
You should find two pins are connected but with a moderate resistance, a few hundred ohms at a guess? Those will be contact common and coil; it should "run", oscillate, with power applied those.
The other pins go to the transformer, with the centre tap to the coil pin power connection.
Edit - see the schematic here:
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The vibrator is the part just at the left of the transformer; the armature is the horizontal bar & common contact, the coil & drive contact above with its terminal connected to the cap and choke, then the two power contacts connect to the ends of the transformer primary.
The resistor across the transformer is to limit the voltage spikes as the contacts open.
[That diagram has a version with extra contacts for synchronous rectification - you would presumably use high speed diodes].