I have seen similar projects use a TSOP1738 as an IR receiver however I cant seem to find this component so I am assuming this has been replaced with something newer?
There are quite a few different 'IR reciever' modules around. The part you described is a well known one, but many other brands/part numbers will do, providing you check the datasheet. Generally having three pins, VCC (usually 5v, but can be lower), GND/0V and out.
As suggested, nigels tutorials are a great place to start with micro's, especially as he has covered IR and RF communication.
If you could convert the RF signals to data, using a microcontorller, you still can use hyperterminal to view what that data is. Its complicated though, as nigel pointed out, IR and RF don't use standard UART/serial formats, that doesn't mean to say you can't still use a micro to convert it to serial for debugging.
Altohugh I ithnk its possible, I believe it would be easier to control your 'RF remote' with your IR remote. Having a 'black box' somewhere that you point your IR remote at, it picks up the IR signals, and which button you press, and triggers the existing RF remote. Or perhaps that what you meant?
To convert an IR remote to RF wouldn't be that difficult, however..... you would have to reprogram the IR remote to send the same data as your RF remote = ridiculously complicated. A think a 'translator' would be the easiest option. Not for the actual infrared to RF, but for the data it carries.