it's difficult to tell from the pictures exactly what is causing your problem. one thing i can tell you is that the smearing effect on the non-working panel is not normal, even for a panel getting confused signals. it looks like the new panel is supposed to be a replacement for the old one, judging by the part number on the sticker. but even then, without more documentation than the connector pinout (a schematic would be ideal, but a data sheet with the signal, power, and data timing information (for both boards) would be a big help. the smearing problem appears to be something more wrong than just incompatibility of the interface, so it could be you have a defective panel.