On proper datasheets, they make very clear that ABSOLUTE MAXIMUM RATINGS are withstanding ratings only.
You can take them to that limit at a specified temperature (usually 25C) and short period of time without damage.
Exceed EITHER the current/voltage value, the temperature, or the exposure time, and then you are on your own.
The behavior becomes non-linear, and any manufacturing imperfection could cause the unit to avalanche without warning.
Heeding a datasheet's values over all worst case scenarios is a sign of good engineering practice.
A good analogy is a typical V8 engine that in a truck may be rated for 300 HP, whereas that same (although higjly modified) engine can put in excess of 2000 HP in a dragster. The difference being that the engine in the dragster is only expected to put that much power for less than 10 seconds, whereas in your truck it must last 100,000 miles.