I included a data sheet for a white 30mA LED. C503d-WAN
Vf is 3.2V typical, 4.0 max, the min is not rated but maybe 2.2V
Paralleling two LEDs is like paralleling two Zeners. Not done in good engineering.
The graph shows voltage vs current for the led. The three lines are for a min, typ, and max LED. The min curve is at the far left corner of the graph.
While it is not likely you will find a min and a max LED in parallel. It is much more likely you will find a 25% and a 75% LED in parallel. A 25% and a 75% LEDs will act just like a typical and a max LED in parallel.
Lets place a 40mA current source driving these two LEDs in parallel. The typical LED will take all 40mA and have 3.5V across it. While 3.5V will cause only uA in the 4.0V LED.
If we increase the current to 60mA the 3.2V LED will have 3.8V across it and most of the 60mA. The 4.0V LED, with 3.8Vf, will have 2mA.
Someone here thinks that if you parallel 100 LEDs this problem goes away. I think using 100 LEDs increase the likely hood of having
differences in Vf and thus huge differences in current.