I checked out your suggestions on the breadboard. (as a portable test setup I'm using 3 AA batteries to power my setup, only using 1 299 on the breadboard as a test setup since I only have one breadboard right now). I am using I/O 7 to start the on delay 555 (lower) or to go to the DS0/SR (pin 11) of the next 299.
I haven't tried to swap the resistor, capacitor, and/or the diode. I found the circuit at
555 Timer, Operation. . I tried to move pin 8 to power and that didn't work. I haven't analyzed the circuit yet to understand it yet (been to focused on the entire circuit, I'll need to do that so I will remember it for future projects).
I came up with the idea of using the transistor (or at least I didn't find it on the web) for the reset of the 299's. My theory on that was that pin 3 of the 555 goes low (which would pull the MR (pin 9) of the 299 low) when not active, using the transistor would let the diode (now the 10k resistor) keep MR high until the lower 555 timed out.
I have this on the breadboard and just tested it all. It seems to work, but I need to get a bigger breadboard and find a suitable power supply so that I can do a full setup before I etch my double sided board (that will be another first for me).
Please let me know if my "theories" or "ideas" or research are flawed, not correct, best practice, inefficient, or could be improved upon.
Once again thanks, and ccurtis, you have saved many components from a smokey death, and the walls in my house from many skull indentations.
C