Overall, I don't have a lot to add to this good discussion and I certainly don't have any new information after 2008 on questions of resonance. However, I wanted to make one general comment/clarification related to the parallel RLC circuit. Some of the references sited above seem to indicate a voltage driven parallel circuit, but this can be problematic.
A series RLC circuit can be driven by a voltage source without problem. Even if we add parasitic series resistance to the cap and coil, all resistances can be lumped into one equivalent series resistor, and the overall structure of the system is unaltered.
A parallel RLC circuit driven by a voltage source suffers from two key issues. First, a capacitor should never be directly driven by a perfect voltage source; although, this can be remedied by adding the series resistance to the ideal cap. It is also prudent to add a parasitic resistance to the coil. The second issue with this circuit is that driving parallel branches, with a ideal voltage source, perfectly isolates each branch. Hence, strictly there are three independent systems, and not one RLC system.
If a parallel RLC is driven with a current source, a single system with resonance is allowed.
I'm not sure if any of these comments directly affect anyones thinking, or any comments/conclusions mentioned above, but I thought I would just make this reminder because forgetting about it sometimes leads to misconceptions. More importantly, many references (confusingly) show the ideal parallel RLC circuit with an ideal voltage source driving it, which is not really a correct presentation.