Either 1 flyback - in that case - Connect a didoe to each relay. From relay pin numbers Pin 1 (anode) to pin 5 (cathode). This is a reverse bias to prevent current spikes.
Or, option 2, your relay coil is drawing more current than the RPi can supply on the I/O pins. If this is the case, you need to add a transistor to use as a switching device to increase current handling. If you get a reasonably sizes transistor (actually a MOSFET), then you can directly drive the big relays and get rid of the intermediate relays.
Make sure you select a MOSFET that can be driven with 3.3v logic from your pi, and handle the current and voltage of your 12v wench relays.