RCinFLA is correct. With a tapped winding that you have, all of the other suggested configurations are wrong. You have confirmed this with explosions and smoke.
You have two choices:
2) Continue to call your 0V terminal "0V". Develop each of the two necessary voltages with a half wave rectifier (single diode) and capacitor. This isn't a good idea at the current levels involved.
In either case, you should use properly rated diodes. 1N4007s are only good for about 1A. You should consider 25A bridges for 10A; if your co-workers or local merchant don't know some, come back and we'll try to help.