Yes it has a very low dynamic resistance, but it still has a significant voltage drop when operating, since lamp operating power equals the lamp voltage drop times the current.
Yes you are, and not quite.
Yes you did.
But that's not sufficient to calculate the resistor value.
You seem to think you can calculate the resistor value without knowing the lamp voltage, but you can't, since some of the voltage will be dropped across the lamp, and the rest will be dropped across the resistor.