Based on your answers I would say C for language, Arduino for processor/platform,
a small color OLED display shield for menu and gate indicator (no LED needed). When you
pick a display, size, brightness, make sure it has a library to use with Arduino.
If you have never coded there are tons of videos on youtube to learn C, Arduino is
mostly a C like language.
Do you have an oscilloscope and voltmeter ? For test/debug/development work ?
Its going to take you some time to learn coding. But Arduino is a good place to start.
Open-source electronic prototyping platform enabling users to create interactive electronic objects.
Regards, Dana.