If you want to switch a load, drive a transistor from the neon osc or use a transistor or IC oscillator controlling a power device. Mechanical relays the operate at accurately at high speeds are very rare and expensive!
An old Carpenter relay may work consistently up to possibly about 100Hz with a bit of luck, tuning and appropriate drive circuits... They were the "go to" relay for passing serial data - about 60 - 70 years ago.
With electronics and optocoupler alternatives, they are long obsolete.
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