There are voltage regulators available that will stand load-dump voltages.
https://uk.farnell.com/diodes-inc/a...-3-3v-0-05a-40-to-125deg/dp/3518353?st=ap7384 It is rated to 45 V input
To protect against higher voltages, you can put a resistor in series and then a zener or transient suppressor to ground. It is a lot easier to limit the voltage to 40 V to protect regulators like the AP7384 than it is to limit to lower voltage for more usual regulators.
If you are wanting to measure an input signal, just use a voltage divider. A capacitor will reduce the transient voltages, and the input clamping diodes on the microprocessor input will prevent damage if you use 10 kOhm or higher resistors in your voltage divider.
Most vehicle will sense the current taken by the bulbs for turn signal, so if the bulb fails, the lamps will flash faster. I think that has been a requirement for 50 years or so, but there may be an exemption in the USA for vehicles that can tow trailers.
If your vehicle is sensing the current taken by the turn signals, you may need to put big resistors to take similar currents to the bulbs.
You are probably supposed to put some sort of sensing circuit for the LED lights, so that the driver can be warned if the LEDs fail.