I used an IR receiver module, like found in TVs and VCRs, well anything with a remote. Most will work with a 38kHz signal. I used an AVR, ATtiny13, and get about 2 feet driving the IR Led directly from the MCU pin, no transitors, or even current limiting resistor. See Nigel's tutorial, that's what I used for the hardware. The receiver modules aren't expensive to buy, easy to find from salvage. Only problem is that, it can be triggered by any remote, of course you can send out a specific pattern, only switch when received.