Hey! very interesting. I'm planning to do something similar soon. I too have a camcorder that never gets used that i want to use. I'm a complete newbie to the electronics/microcontroller scene, but i think i'm going the microcontroller way.... just need to learn the basics first! my idea is to make a servo based solution so it can be used with all cameras, without hacking them. That way the controller can be used with any camera, it's just a matter of changing the script and make a new outer "shell" where the servos are mounted.
Like you i´m thinking a PIR to trigger camera startup, a light sensor (resistor) to determine whether a servo should flick the switch on the cam to go night-mode and also turn on an IR LED floodlight, a servo to push start / stop and then power off. Then comes other considerations, do power stay on if PIR keeps detecting movement, etc. Anyway, don't know if it gave inspiration or not, but i'll look forward to learn more about your project! Pictures and diagrams will be greatly appeciated!