This seems a completely pointless thread?, there's already a VERY long established technique for doing this, certainly in the UK - for recording TV viewing statistics (where do you think the viewing figures come from?).
Over the years I've seen various 'boxes' for doing this, both on customers sets and rental ones. Essentially an engineer is sent out, who hardwires a box directly to the local oscillator inside the tuner, this connects to an external box which records all the required information, and transmits it via modem over the phone.
Same applies to VCR, cable and satelite boxes - accurate information is gathered from them, and transmitted via modem.
A further VERY important part is filling the forms in, the viewers need to fill in who was watching, and their age groups and sex, in order to give accurate information.
Households are selected at random, and I actually received an offer the other year, but turned it down, I couldn't be bothered with all the form filling.
As for externally detecting the channel, TV detector vans in the UK routinely did this for years, from out in the street - although there were only ever a VERY small number of them, and I don't know if any exist today or not?. Basically you had a VERY skilled operative with expensive communications receivers fed from a directional aerial. With this they could pinpoint which room a TV was in, what channel it was tuned to, and even if it was colour.
I've been in one once, it was very impressive what he could do with it.