I finally built a PicKit 2 clone with some help from friends on here, so was able to finish the cap meter. You can see in the photo how a backlit LCD looks without the backlight, too...
BUT, I tested it with a fairly ancient 1% 39nF cap, the meter reads it as 35.8somehing nF, way out of tolerance, even though I used a 0.1% resistor for the 10K. I suppose it's possible I've cooked the resistor, but I don't think so. I tried some other caps as well, all read low. What else could be upsetting the reading?
(edit: actually, maybe I should crank the voltage up a little - it's set for exactly 5v, maybe it needs closer to 5.5v)