if you are pulsing it with 1 amp, you need the duty cycle to be 10% or less. the power dissipation limit also de-rates linearly with the device temperature. since it's an IR diode, the voltage drop across it is most likely to be about .7V, so for a power dissipation of 190mW, that's an average current of 270 mA. the device will heat up, lowering the max dissipation limit, so that's why they spec'ed it at 100mA continuous instead of 270. for 1A pulses, like i said your on-time needs to be 10% or less, you didn't actually say you were using 1A pulses, but if you are, 33% duty cycle is too much. do you have a data sheet for the diode? a data sheet could probably tell you what you want to know