ok...still playing around alot with circuit. another symptom is, sometimes, when disconnecting the power to the circuit, the IR leds (one is a normal LED) are flashing slowly (think this is it stuck in the nop part of code [i don't know]), even if i disconnect the power then re connect, it will still be flashing. I checked all the chip pins, and, they're all high. The flashing will stop after pressing buttons/reconnecting several times.
still havn't got it to turn on the receiver led seamlessly, but, we're very close. any ideaS?