what i understand is you have full details of your project and as you said you need some more details only about how to connect. just refer the data sheet of the recording/prerecorded IC, you may get the full idea. you need to find out what are the analogue input and out put of them and how to activate and deactivate or play & record mode are selected.
also what about your door bell music? will it be stored inside? then is there more than one track to be stored? i mean voice of the owner and door musics? or stil you can adda nother special IC available for door musics and put it to work when its in "IN" mode.
also what about if more than one visitor comes when the owener is out? is there any provision for more recording? or it will role and delete the previous one?