Ok Now I rechecked the whole thing on a 12V Battery generated DC.
When I connect a SMPS load (non linear) to the relay...it behaves erratically (as was the case with the unisolated PSU ,i had mixed things in my mind and apology for that
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So its not the problem with the PSU.
The ckt detects an IR wave from a remote ,decodes it and takes appropriate action on successfull compare..
When a Lamp load is put on the relay,it works flawlessly...The problem arises on non linear loads..The ckt takes number of key presses for a succesfull compare..
I am really confused
Please help guys