In theory, the exact time of switching could yield different switching power. With a real relay you cannot predict with certainty when the contacts will meet and/or separate.
A theoretical relay might close or open instantaneously. But all real relays take a finite time. Upon closing, the contacts usually bounce, sometimes up to 10 milliseconds of rapidly closing and opening. Upon opening, the air gap is increasing at a finite rate, and at the beginning of that time the air gap may be small enough to conduct (i.e. spark).