Voltage (similar to electron energy) is kind of like how much the electrons vibrate as they flow. The amount and speed at which they vibrate is independent of the speed or direction the electron is flowing in.
Your analog is wrong, because electrons don't "slow down" when they travel through a resistor. They vibrate less (which is also the same as losing energy, and this causes a voltage drop).
With cars, the number of cars passing across a line draw across a highway depends on the speed of the cars AND the number of cars passing the line at the same time. But electrons move at pretty much the same speed no matter what. This means that current flow (or rate of electron flow) is how many electrons are trying to cram through the same space at the same time in the resistor/wire, rather than how fast the electrons are moving.
Imagine you (the electron) and a bunch of other people, walking around waving your arms everywhere and kicking in all directions, but really still moving forward. If you enter a narrow hallway (a resistor), then everyone has to cram close together and you can't wave your arms around or kick as much, but you are still walking forward at the same speed. The lack of waving and kicking is the voltage drop (loss of energy), but the current (the number of people passing through a cross section of the hallway at any one time) is the same.