I think you're confused about how to interpret that graph.
You're talking about the directions the waveforms are moving at the point you've selected. That's totally irrelevant to the question you asked. All that matters are the instantaneous values of the waves at that point. So for the point you chose, which is a little before the peak of Phase 1, the opposing forces (the "pulls" as you put it) are the values of Phases 2 and 3 at that point. Doesn't matter which way they're moving; all we're interested in is the value at that point, like a snapshot in time.
If you add together all the pushes and pulls at that one point, they will equal 0.
Remember, "push" and "pull" depend on the position of the wave either above or below the X-axis, respectively, not the direction the waveform is headed.
Typical rookie error. Don't sweat it.