I suggest you either really study ASM or invest in an easier programming language such as Pic Basic. When I first started, I had a hell of a time learning ASM from picking apart ASM tutorials. I understand more of it now but switched to Pic Basic Pro for the hassle.
no sorry (hides under table). Thanks for directing me to the sticky
A lot of people would suggest getting the pickit2 or clone. As far as projects go, there are a lot out there. I would first try a basic blinking LED one just to get the idea. As KChriste said, check out Nigel's site.