AA, some advice ...
When discussing basic electrical concepts, be careful that you stick to basic electrical parts. There is a HUGE difference between a theoretically perfect transformer which is fine for an entry/medium level discussion of voltages, currents, power, turns ratios, impedances, etc., and *any* real world transformer. If you start getting pushed around about all of the things you're not mentioning, pull the discussion back to the basics.
Never use a light bulb as an example of anything. A light bulb is a resistor with a high parasitic inductance and a huge temperature coefficient. It is a convenient (but dangerous) load for a discussion of AC power, but only if everyone agrees that the light bulb already is on and the line voltage is stable.
Not everyone who knows a lot about electronics knows how to talk about electronics.
The water analogy for electricity is extremely limited. It works well for a grade school discussion of DC; for anything more complex than a flashlight, it sucks.
Reign in your own examples. While there is nothing technically inaccurate with discussing nanoamp currents in high voltage transmission lines, that will be lost on most respondents and you'll get all kinds of flack.
Ohm's Law. Watt's Law. Joule's Law. Know them. See that OL can be used to transform WL into JL. Come to terms with the fact that the four basic quantities (V, I, R, P) are all *interdependent* aspects of anything electrical. This will take a while because some aspects of it are not intuitively obvious.
Before you say something about keeping the current constant while varying the voltage across a fixed resistance, first run some examples through the math and see if it is possible. When you see that it isn't, ask about that. As the quality of your questions increases, so will the quality of the answers.
When running simple math examples, stay away from the quantities 1, 2, and 4 for any of the initial conditions. It can prevent some mislearning (1+1 = 1x1 = 1/1, etc.)
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