You can try plugging in the ablenet switch and check if two pins on the stereo jack switch. It is likely that you will find the correct pair because, back in the 1970s, some people plugged mono-headphones into a stereo Walkman and everything worked. So, give it a try if you already have the stereo jack.
One thing you must be aware of, there may be some intermittent issues on the exact position of the plug into the jack - it may not fit securely and click into place well. I assume you are not using this to control a wheelchair or something critical.
Also, do not allow more that rated current through the switch. There was someone on one of the forums putting about 10 amps from a Barbie Power Wheels through one of those switches and wondered why it burned up.