Wow - Your development speed is abnormal!
For "normal" usage of this display You need 7 lines to the Controller, but You can switch it to serial mode via solder point.
But I think You've known this.
And I guess it's quite expensive.
Don't forget the power supply, the contrast pot and backlight for the display in your schematic - I've done this a time ago.
Such displays are availible es OLED version too, that will increase the viewing angle.
E.g.
https://www.reichelt.de/display-oled-2x20-116x37mm-gelb-ea-w202-xlg-p113323.html?&trstct=pos_15
20x2 chars. SPI ? - I've not explored.
My favorite would be a grafic display, You know.
But with an 4 Wire SPI Bus You can change it when want any time.
You only have to use an other library.