Would this work. Moving the resistor here instead of having it in the circuit before the volume pot in the curcuit?If you want the filters maybe you could put a volume pot before the filter, that way you could trim the apparent volume so that theres no change when you switch the filter in & out, that would enable you to use the bypass switch as an effect, or instead of a pot just a pcb trimmer and trim out the volume difference. You could then possibly do away with the balance pot idea between the filters.
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