The package size doesn't dictate the brightness, and one "0805 LED" isn't the same as another.
Since you've talked about using a service to stuff the boards, if you want to know what it's going to look like then you need to use the LED that they're going to install. You at least want one with similar characteristics.
As I said a while back, I've had some blue leds that'll fry your eyes out they're so bright, while others are more reasonable.
Also, you might need different resistor values for the blue vs white leds to keep them about the same brightness.
Just trying to save you some grief since it'll be a pain to try and change the resistor arrays once they're installed.