Sure nitrousscout, the circuit is as simple as can be:
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To the right there is an example of how I laid it out. So far this is my best working version. Note that other models of RX may not work, this one is rated for as low as 2.5V, the syma is 3.7V and many similar transmitters are 5v.
To tap into the control signal for the TX (my photo of the open handset came out blurry) but if you are holding the PCB with the back facing you and the IR LEDS at the top, the chip that outputs the signal should be on the lower left, its a 14 pin DIP and I think the only one on the board, the pin at the bottom left side of that (closest to the corner of the board) is the one you need. Wire from that pin to DATA on your TX, then just pull the power from the battery lines. For the antenna a 17.2cm wire is specified.
For future improvements, I'm experimenting with using a RX with an inverted output but the pulse frequency capability of the one I got seems too low, it goes rythmically in and out of control at about 1 Hz, as in, if you hold the throttle on the helicopter runs on for about 3/4 a second then stops for about 1/4 second over and over, but the speed while it's on responds. Also, I've tried putting the NOT gate at the TX end, but it didn't work, perhaps the amplification is necessary.
On an amusing side note, I posted about this on an RC forum, and a guy there insists, saying he will eat crow and his hat if he's wrong, that this is not possible and I'm a liar. He gave several explanations as to why and even wrote some formulas. To my surprise even after I posted a video where I showed the heli up close, then covered the IR emitter and flew the helicopter, he said I was lying and it can't be done. Just funny how some people can be so sure of themselves when they haven't even tried something.
Video is here if anyone's curious. I wouldn't have responded to him, but he started out like he was curious how it worked, if he had let on that he was just a cynical doof right off I would have ignored him.