Neither of the latching relays in you links seem to match up with the information that you have supplied so far. You first showed 6 connections on the latching relay then in the text you say there are 7 connections. The data sheet I found on the web relating to the relay in your first link (RT424F12) show that it has 9 connections. The positive end of both coils is connected to the same pin. The relay in your second link (TX2-LT-12V) is shown as having 10 pins. (Which is what I expect on a 2 coil DPDT latching relay. 2 for each coil, 3 for each of the sets of changeover contacts which adds up to 10.) Do the 2 relays you have match the number of pins indicated on the data sheets I have found ? You can use the way the relays are drawn on the data sheets to draw a schematic.
Les