OK maybe wasn't clear. What does the connector look like for just the display? Is it DIP or what?
The DogL display just plugs into a 0.1" dip ic socket with conventional ic pins - couldn't be simpler
Its just a 40 pin ic socket, the turned pin type. Simply cut in half and fit to your board at 1.9" apart.
If you use the RS unit, then that does need soldering to a board. The pins are at 1.27mm apart, fine soldering, but ok with care.
See the pics in the pdf with the initial post.