Actually EN an isotropic antenna is not the 'best' antenna no matter how you look at it. It's simply a theoretical point radiator that puts out radiation in every direction 100% evenly, no antenna does this, just about no antenna would ever need/want to. The radiation pattern of a vertical dipole is a large toroid around the antenna, this is nearly ideal, this is also the same pattern as you get from a whip antenna with a good ground references, theoretically at the tip there is no radiation, this is good because ground based RF doesn't need to radiate up. In the case of aircraft it's a little more complicated because obviously you don't want to lose contact with aircraft directly overhead, so antenna arrays are used instead.