John1 --I'm still holding out for the relay circuit to work, With regard to the SCR's and only taking .8 volts, I'm not so certain that wouldn't be a problem. This video card is pretty power hungry and 0.8 V is more than a 10% undercurrent from the 5V line. Under full load, I could probably expect to have 4.0~4.1V being fed to the video card at the time when it would require the most power too. My experiences with video cards particularly suggests to me that under full load, inadequate voltage can definately cause alot of instability. However, if it becomes apparent that there is no way I'm gonna get the relay to work, I'd probably try the SCR's in a last ditch effort.
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Alrighty, I switched one of the 1N4001's around as it was facing the wrong way, and retested it, but it still flips the relay to the OC and and stays there. So I've come to the conclusion that I'm doing something wrong that isn't at all apparent to me (the newbie guy) but would probably be very easy to spot for one of you. So to hopefully make it really easy to troubleshoot, I'm posting this pretty close to scale model of my circuit I built. Let me know if you have questions or comments, and please please please let me know if you see my mistake.
All adjacent colored-in holes are to be considered sauldered
Yellow indicates 12V power, Red indicates 5V power, Black is ground of course. A Yellow wire carrys 12V power to some component, and a Blue wire is on its way back to the 12V ground. The wires in the picture are not at all drawn to scale, but hopefully they are easy to understand whats going where.
Man, I wish I had the skills to do this myself. I really want yall to know I appreciate all of your advice and help you've offered me.