The two circuits on youtube could be defined as junk, they use the sawtooth voltage across the capacitor of the astable oscillator realized with a NE555. This voltage, that varies from 4 to 8 volts with the NE555 powered at 12 V, is sent to the base of a transistor in common collector configuration so at the emitter output the voltage varies between about 4.3 and 7.3 V. To correctly drive two white LEDs in series even without a limiting resistor you have to hope for a miracle.
So straydoggo you can't drive a 12 V LED strip it with those circuits.
If you want to drive a 12 V led strip you have to use a pwm circuit that can be made with a NE555 and other components but it's not so trivial.