I have an Alexa-controlled relay that works fine with a linear actuator. The relay has three buttons on it, forward, reverse, and reset. I want to be able to duplicate the action of the "forward" button with a temporary-on push button switch, basically duplicating the effect of pushing the "forward" button. When I've tried to wire a simple DPDT switch in series, it never works, and shuts down the whole relay. How can I completely bypass the relay and just have power going to the actuator with a simple push-on/release-off switch?