Ok.... lot going on here.
Pommie: You are correct in everything you say. Everything is connected and tested back from ground wire through to the IC.
The chip has been thoroughly scraped clean. I believe the idea behind it is to prevent someone from copying the design precisely. This company has had this in the USA as the only option for a long time. Only now are other competitors coming into the market as, I guess, the patents are expiring. That would be the only reason I can see for removing the markings.
It's just to be bloody minded - it's not preventing anything, it's a micro-controller, and it's completely useless without the content (which will be protected, so you can't read it). If you buy a computer game on a CD-ROM, do they remove all the markings so you won't realise it's a CD-ROM? - no, of course not, it's exactly the same as here.
It's almost certainly not patented, as there seems nothing that could be patented? - and in the unlikely event it was patented, then the patent would probably show what the chips were
If anything is patented, it would have to some small part of it, something unique which you could get a patent for, but for a simple RF remote it's all pretty basic stuff - and rubbing the numbers of the chips is just a measure to stop other people trying to repair it.
Pins 8 and 19 are both grounded. That 5 pin connector would be for initial programming? I've seen this type on other devices and the pins were 3.3v/Rx/Tx/Gr/GPIO14. when I put a 6v test light from positive to terminals 2,3,5 (respectively from top to bottom), I get the power and transmit LEDs to turn on. Terminal 1 goes to ground. Pin 4 goes to pin 1 (MCLR/VPP) on the IC.
I'm quite horrified at you randomly sticking a test lamp on it - you could easy kill something doing that - test lamps (where applicable) are for testing crude electrical things, not electronic ones. If you want to test things, use a multimeter.
It still looks
VERY like a PIC, with Vpp/MCLR on pin 1, the clock oscillator on pins 9&10, Vss on pin 8, and (probably) Vss on pin 19 with Vdd on pin 20 (19 and 20 are missed out from the ribbon cable).
The programming pins on such a PIC are ICSPDAT on 28, ICSPCLK on 27, Vpp on 1, Vss (gnd) on pins 8 &19, and Vdd on pin 20