First question is easy...electronic abilities are LOW.
The pulse will be from a 12volt source...a relay closure. (specifically, the output from a VOX circuit. What I had drawn out, was having the pulse trigger an SCR, which would be connected in series with a zener (to provide a more reliable cutoff) and the relay coil. This line would charge a capacitor, instead of being grounded, and as the capacitor charged to a certain point, the zener would stop conducting, and which would cause the SCR to and the coil relay to drop out.
I'm new at this forum...maybe I can draw out what i have...and post the image here??
Once the values are set for this circuit, they dont really need to be adjustable, only dependable, so I didnt want to go to the extra sophistication of digital circuits.
Thanks!!!!!